If you have been trying to find sex locally and haven’t had much luck, this blog post is for you. You have to understand that your problem is not based on demand or supply. In fact, there is a lot of supply out there. Regardless of how many competitors you have for hot women who are just looking to fuck, supply is not an issue.
There are a lot of women out there who are using the internet to get random anonymous physical relationships going. They are just looking for sex. They are not looking for emotional entanglement. They are not looking for emotional strings. They just want raw hard action.
This is why supply is not the problem. As more and more women try to shy away from long and emotionally draining relationships, the supply of ready, willing, and available females on free adult dating sites will continue to build. That is not the problem.
The problem is the demand. Guys who try to find sex locally screw up again and again. How? They have the wrong attitude. They think that this is too good to be true. They think that they are not good enough. They think that they won’t succeed.
You have to understand that your life is a product of your thoughts. If you start thinking a certain way and it becomes a habit, it will always override your conscious thoughts. Maybe you really want to fuck a hot chick you find online. Maybe you really want to hook up with as many different women online as possible. However, your subconscious has such a strong power over your conscious thoughts that they get short-circuited. Your actions change and when it comes time to actually pull the trigger and make a decision, you fail again and again.
If you are serious about really improving your sex life, you need to get over this hurdle. Otherwise, success is absolutely not possible. You are just basically wasting your time. You are trying to squeeze water out of a rock. Whatever you try to do will always end up failing. You can bet on that.
You have to change your mind-set. You have to be clear as to what you are really thinking and confront those fears. Most guys fail because they are afraid. They don’t fail because they don’t have the capacity or the capabilities. They have the inner strength.
The problem is they don’t have the mind-set. They let fear get the best of them and they end up broken, alone, and lonely. If you want your future to be something different, if you want to be more in control of your life, you need to start taking full control of your thoughts.